A good bit of yesterday afternoon, I spent talking to my brother’s latest “victim”. Ok, maybe I shouldn’t call her a victim; seems to me he is more of the victim. She has her act together, which is a massive improvement from the last two he grooved around with.
I like her even if she is from “The North” for us southern dudes. (Only kidding, remember Amy is about as far north as you can get). It’s funny to see him gravitate to someone once more. I didn’t think he would after the loss of Dee, or to anyone and the luck he had with the others would sway you to not want to try for a very long time.
They both love music, but who doesn’t? They both DJ on the internet, but who hasn’t? Both are fashion plates, I’m not! Both have a very dry and semi sarcastic sense of humor, I don’t know anyone else like that. Both love to try anything once and have a full on sense of adventure, which is scary.
Jess, that’s the name she prefers at the moment, I’m not sure what her nickname is of yet. We all know Jacks loves to give out his pet names for the ladies. Only in a few instances are the previous ladies of his past similar to her.
She isn’t anything like Jacks fabled counterpart, whom I liked as well but we never really chatted. She was very quiet and reserved something I just didn’t see that would mesh well with Jacks. I never exactly figured out what happened on that end with those two, it was all Jill all the time then suddenly nothing. Possibly school and the pressures of what life leads, tore them apart. Or the “Brbs” for days on end, which left him hanging and wondering, were just too much.
Then there was the “one that shall not be named”, another Italian (that isn't always bad). That whole high strung/drama filled summer even gave me gray hairs. It also gave him a backbone and an understanding of the unstable people in the world. Everything was all dandy in then the bottom fell out and the psych ward needed to be called. Not only for the fact, that whole relationship had to be kept quiet for some unknown and stupid reason. I heard (by my own ears) the twisted, mean, dramatic, words spewed in his direction to get an emotion of jealousy from him. During one of those sessions I went so far as to hang up Skype for him on her, instead of him taking that kind of verbal beating. Which he endured nightly, hours on end, without complaint to any of his friends that knew her as well, finally he tired of the whole drawn out battles she insisted on having and he called it quits. (Just comes to show, you think you know something about the "cute" couples.)
Jess, Jessica, insert nickname here, seems to be on her game with him. Not letting him get away with some of his wilder antics. She appears to ground him in some sort of fashion.
I don’t mind teasing with her; she is able to throw it right back, God knows he needs it thrown right back at him.
Right now, if you talk to Jacks, it’s her name continuously, what they did and who they saw, what they are going to do. I’m afraid he might one day go too far into details for me. He is mad in love with her, “I can’t stop thinking about her” which brings on his huge smile. I’ve talked to her and get the same reaction “I’m totally in love with that boy”.
From what I gather, its non stop between the two of them until the one insists its time for bed. It’s great to see two people so in love, may it last a long time. My only suggestion is to take it slow and easy, enjoy the ride and the fun times, you have many more to come.
Oh, I was supposed to say something about “One of the sweetest and cutest girls I know”…..
Thursday, April 24
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Mark! You did it. You've blogged me and now are in the HOT SEAT. You are such a great friend to me, and I'm happy to know you, and that you know me like you do. Meanwhile it't always great to know that you understand how much I love Jacks and care for him. I'm not like the Stalker or the Crazy Ex's. Now the whole blog world knows it! **I love to get a rise outta people**. You have a safe weekend and be good! ~hugs~
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