Will I become a Sludge?

What is a Sludge you ask? Well in my verballogy Sludge is mainly a guy that can not function without his partner doing something for him.
Case in point, this girl and her husband have been married for over fourteen years, they married very young. She’s sweet and will do anything in the world for you, he is a major lazy prick in my eyes, and they have two children, the oldest child is twelve and the youngest is 6.
She does everything, in the mornings she gets up extra early to lay out clothes for everyone. Now, I don’t mean layout clothes and that’s that. She lays out all the clothes: underwear, socks, pants shirt, shoes, as if there was a human without skin sitting the chair next to the bed.
She does the same for the kids, along with brushing their hair; wonder isn’t that he can do his own hair. Dinner time he has the nerve to sit at the table with and empty drink glass until she gets up to make her another one, then asks her to make him one as well.
The husband has been having some health issues; the guy is 6’4” and weighs nearly 300 lbs, he walks all day long for a living, then plays pool professionally at night. Don’t ask me how you professionally play pool.
He doesn’t make the appointment but calls his wife at work and instructs her to make the appointment. Then if he doesn’t like the time he rants to her to have it changed to a time he likes.
He then requests that she come home from work -- 45 minute drive—to meet him and they both drive back into town to see the doctor. Where she asks all the questions and finds out what pills are needed and then proceeds to write the check. Because big man can’t seem to find the balls enough to ask his own doctor about his own condition and write his own checks.
Pay bills – don’t make me laugh, yet he screams at the top of his lungs they don’t have any money in their savings account because he needs to buy the latest and greatest gadget i.e. satellite radio, ipod phone, plasma TV.
He gets off work every day at noon, his two kids are out of school around 2:45. Grandma (his mommy) drives to the school to pick up their kids and watches them until wifey gets off work at 5 to come pick the kids up and take them home. She then makes sure they do their homework, feed them and bathe them, because “Daddy” was tired and needed a nap.
When I hear of other exploits my head wants to bust, of course this isn’t all the guys fault, I mean he is only 30 years old, he has time to change.